Here are my  thoughts. When you really think about who the real winner is, it's really the ones who are let go before the final show because they aren't stuck in an American Idol Contract forced to do the music and all of the other things they are made to do whether they like it or not. They aren't usually free to do their own music.

Now Danny can get on a Label where he can do the music he loves to do and play the venues he wants to play. He is able to do his own negotiating. He will actually have a say in what will happen in his career. He is going to go far without winning AI just like Chris Daughtry.

All three guys will do well they have incredible talent.

   I had my daughter when I was 17. Her Bio dad didn't really want much to do with her we tried to make it work when she was two but it just didn't work out. His mom and dad saw her quite a few times.

  When she was 3, I met the man of my dreams, the love of my life, my hubby. He wanted to adopt her if the bio agreed. (It only took him 10 minutes to agree)By that time he had been married a year and I guess was happy not to have to pay child support he wasn't seeing her at all or had any contact, his choice.

Mike and I got married, he adopted Steph. And this April (she is 27) she tells us she is in contact with the bio just to find out about herself. (I never kept his name a secret) She doesn't want a relationship just information and to meet her sisters(19 and 21) He came up here from Wisc (Where we used to live) in April to meet her and her husband. They have two kids (6 and 4 and baby due in Dec.) Then they went to Wisc. in July to Meet the Grandparents and the Bio's Fiance (Divorced from first wife) this time they took the kids and they call Stephs Bio, Grandpa. WHAT HAPPENED TO JUST GETTING INFORMATION!!!!!!!

So now She has left her husband (He had an affair, he's not that great anyways)and moved to Wisconsin. She says it's to get away fron Robert her husband. She said that her and I hadn't been close and now she doesn't speak to (her dadMy Husband) and hasn't for two months. We are so Hurt!  Who is this Person!!! But Her new family will be financially supporting her and so will mine. My family isn't talking to me they think it's wrong that we don't support this relationship. But there have been so many lies, I could write a book. (Too long for this Blog). She will be living with my mom who is 80 and really has no money. My family believes she is moving there to get away from Robert not to be closer to the other family. She hadn't contacted my mom (her Grandma) in the 10 years she's been an adult and then in April she starts to call my mom.  My heart is breaking, my grandkids are my life.They are my heart and soul, I feel like a piece of me has died. I don't work, I spent a lot of my time with them.  I do other things too, but this was my dream to be able to spend time with my grandkids.  Any words of wisdom?  But no preaching, right now God has left the building for whatever reason. I used to feel a presence and a peace but it's gone. So if you're going to tell me he's here PLEASE don't. Just keep it to yourself.  Thanks, Mona

      I'm finally back on my original page. I don't know what happened. Every time I went out of town I couldn't get on my page. I created a new one, then couldn't get on that one. I contacted the powers that be for "Help" and didn't hear back, So I figured I was just going to have to look in from the outside forever. I kept trying to get on my page and clicking the button for my password to be sent to me and it never was, until "Today" YAY!!!!!! I finally received a password for my page and I'm back. It feels so good!!!! I feel like I've missed so much.    Has this happened to anyone else?