haha :) heart-ache for a woman who has never been married, nor has any children, nor really understands pregnancy... I sent her a short email that was not defensive, but clear that I had no intention of getting coffee with her. We'll see what comes of it.

OK.
I probably have a lower bar than most on the STD thing. I read recently that 1-3 teens will be exposed to HPV (genital warts) by the time they are 18 - but seriously... EVERYONE I know intimately (meaning they will tell me the truth and I know them well enough to ask) has had at least one. Many yeast infections are forms of STD so its possible people have had one and not even known and STD’s are on the rise again with guess whom... Seniors 55 and up as they are sexually active longer now thanks to good health and Viagra (Ironic I know).

I know this makes me weird but hey - someone has to be right?